Difference Between Real Love And Attachment

The question which is always being the part of the argument is “Whether it is a True Love Or Just An Attachment?”. For today’s generation, they take attachment as a love which is not what is actually is. We as a human being can get attached very easily and at the end we want that thing to be our in any scenario. But at another hand when we come to the word love it quite different because the one we love we always desire them to be with us but never want to hurt them or want them in any scenario. So, let’s take these words to little dept now.

Attachment is mostly when one person become self-centered. You just want them to be with you, want them to do what you actually want them to do. You don’t care about them from your heart. We always believe that we are in love with the particular person when in fact we are simply attached to them.  We usually pursue relationships with the one because we are comfortable with them and want to stay with them. Which is the whole context towards attachment. 

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In one line I would say Love is selfless, attachment is selfish.  When you love someone you will focus on more on making that person happy rather than making yourself happy by making them hurt. When you are genuinely in love your partner will encourage to be who you are and don’t want you to be changed. Even if it is the true love you will never hesitate about exposing your weakness to them. Love is never controlling and always encourage you to fulfill your dreams.

Attachment, on the other hand, tends to full controlling behavior. You will discourage your partner with their dreams, playing mind games. In the attachment, many people even manipulate their partners. In a single line, I would say Love is liberating, attachment is controlling.

When there is true love no matter what happens they will be together but if it is not one will leave and others will be hoping to make them come back in the life. This one side love is always most hurting feeling in the world where you just don’t want to move further and wanna wait for the right moment to come. If you were truly in love, that person will always have a place in there heart and you will continue to wish them well for the rest of their life. In this case, you can just hope that everything will be better in some time. In simple words Love is everlasting, attachment is transient.

So, the only thing which I would like to add in the end is that while you are in love never think and decide something when someone else is telling you to do it, it can always be wrong always trust your heart because the brain thinks and heart loves.